Don’t Break Up
Before You Try This
Can love ever come back?
You may be surprised to hear that love OFTEN comes back stronger and more connected than ever! Maybe you’re trapped in a relationship where you can’t feel the love. You wish you could turn things around, but there’s nothing you say or do that seems to change anything. You’re stuck. Maybe you’re desperate to be on your own, to just have a break, so the pain will stop. Perhaps you’ve already left, physically, or emotionally.
Perhaps you know you still love each other, but you’re struggling to communicate your feelings, or understand theirs, to talk openly and honestly about money worries, the challenges of family life, or the insecurities of the emotional rollercoaster we’ve all been on this past year.
Or maybe you’re in shock. Your partner’s left and you don’t know why? You just didn’t see it coming. Perhaps you’ve tried counselling or therapy but felt exposed. It’s not your fault. Studies have found that seven out of ten people who try traditional couple counselling find that things are no better or even worse.
Coaching offers a very different solution. First we look at what you really want in your relationship and I will take you from wherever you are right now to your ideal future, in six months or less. However far you are from that right now, we will work together to equip you with the RelationSHIP Skills you need to get you where you want to be. There are just 12 essential RelationSHIP skills you need to build a strong relationship and just four bad habits to avoid.
If you’re here, then there’s hope and I can help you create the relationship you really want … book time in my diary TODAY. It’s not too late. RelationSHIP Skills have saved countless relationships. Don’t split up before you’ve tried this.
“Our relationship, which has always been amazing, had a few external factors that were becoming issues… and we’d forgotten how to communicate. For the money we paid, we thought, let’s just do it, because it’s cheaper than a divorce… Even after the first session we could feel ourselves meshing back together. It was really welcoming not to do the fingerpointing. What we did was build on our solid foundations…. Knowing we’re different and that’s okay, has allowed us to make exceptions, so there’s no longer this miscommunication that leads to resentment and then becomes criticism… If you’re somebody who doesn’t want to get divorced then you haven’t got anything to lose with this… It’s not about dredging up the past or pointy-finger blame. What it is is positive and beautiful and empowering and all sorts of marvellous other words, but until you try it you don’t know and if your other half is sceptical, just ask them to trust you… it’s well worth the investment.”
Dani and Charlie
I help couples on the brink.
If there’s even a glimmer of affection left, then it’s not too late. If counselling hasn’t worked for you, it’s because traditional therapies are brilliant for individuals, but many couples find The Science of Love far more effective in helping them bring the love back and build their relationship even stronger. My evidence-based coaching model encompasses the 12 essential relationship skills, tested against 45 years of world-leading science and this is why, to date, every couple who has completed my programmes have stayed together with more love, happiness and commitment than before.
YOU CAN TRANSFORM YOUR RELATIONSHIP ! The main difference between couples who stay together and are happy, and those who split up, is RelationSHIP Skills, and these are what we’ll learn together, within six months or less.
“The coaching has been essential. We’re so grateful. We’ve got a new awareness of what to look out for to stop things going wrong again and to focus on our relationship, not just go through the motions.”
“Cathy exudes an energy and confidence that any challenges are possible to overcome”
“Exciting times. Our love life is marvellous. We communicate and can express how we feel adequately and without frustration. Life is good”
